If you want to get your music off your Iphone or Ipod touch and copy them to your computer, Apple made it so difficult that people are just discouraged and are not doing it. But if you bought music on your Iphone, you should be entitled to copy it wherever you want.
There are a few commercial products that will do it ( such as Ipod access for windows and Mac ) but you will have to pay 25 $ pretty expensive to use 1 or twice.
I found a free solution for you, it’s not perfect but it works. It’s called Iphone browser ( Windows )
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